I realized something about 2 years into my relationship with my husband that I found comfort in a strange place... his feet!! FOR REALS y'all and I don't even LIKE FEET!!! But there was something about climbing into bed and having his foot brush against mine. Even in those times if conflict-- I know I know never go to bed angry-- but we are human and shit happens-- so that happens sometimes too. Anyway-- even in times of conflict I noticed we would climb into bed and his foot would slowly (sometimes S-L-O-W-L-Y!!!!!) find its way to my side of the bed and brush right up against mine and this feeling of comfort and calm would take over my body.
The funny thing is a few years later in a heartfelt conversation I mentioned to him how much that random act meant to me and he looked at me like I was CRAZY! LOL he had no idea he was even doing it. But LORD it meant the world to me! MORAL OF THE STORY: Start touching feet!!!!! Just kidding-- find your own version of "feet"-- what is it that your partner does to make you feel comfort? Is there something you consciously do to help them feel comfort? If not-- what can you start doing? Do it-- do it some more- and do it often!! BONUS!!!! Acts like this done on a consistent basis can help build intimacy!! (BowChicaBowWow) Not just the sexy kind but the emotional kind too (DOUBLE BONUS!!)
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